Missing those days you are just starting the family? Here are some tips to enliven the gloomy husband and wife relationship you are having:
Praise Your Spouse
-Say something that could brighten your spouse's day. The nice manicure, the neat coat and tie and the like.
Criticize in a Constructive Way
-Say for example "Buy some new blouse for you" than saying "You really look awful on that blouse.." or just suggest a better one of your liking.
Be Generous-Generous not just materially, gifts are not bad in fact they are well-accepted. Time, efforts can be shared too.
Have Private Moments Without the Children
-Be sure to have sometime in a month to have a "date" out, dine together or watch a movie or theater plays. In that way, the grandparents are happy too to have your children in their home for a while when you are going out on a date.
Do Not Speak at the Spur-of-the-Moment
-We often speak of words we DO NOT REALLY mean at the spur-of-the-moment. Try your best to abstain from talking while you are still "flaming" in anger.
Choose the Words-Do not use the "extreme"or exaggerated terms in expressing your thoughts when in an inevitable confrontation. Must avoid confrontation if possible.
Pray for the Family-The BEST advice/tip I can give is to PRAY to always keep you open-minded and forgive each other and keep the LOVE alive in your hearts...let God be the "third party" in your relationship.
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