What is the
secret behind successful relationships? Is it physical beauty? I do not think
it is, because I saw and met a lot of beautiful faces men and women so to speak
but still end-up with a ruined relationship not just in early stages of “boyfriend-girlfriend thing" but also in
marriage. Is it stability? I knew
successful wealthy partners up to this date and also middle-class couples that
still survived their relationship for years too, that could not be the factor
for some. But we can not deny that it
could be one of the reasons. Have a look at these surefire ways:
1.
Perseverance and calmness
Abstain from
talking back while the other is angry. This huge effort on the part of either
the man or woman pays off. Avoiding discussion while the other is “fiery” ,
keeping the mouth shut for seconds or minutes goes a long way. Yes, it pays…try
explaining when the other is relaxed if you wanted to answer the things hurled
against you. Why? While the one is angry, believe me he sees no reason, she
hears nothing but her voice. Frequently, the person who is angry is not in the
right frame of mind, not only liquor and drugs can be overpowering but anger
too.
Whatever
your partner said, he did not mean it. The words are just brought about by spur-of the-moment situation. Do not
harbor it against him. Let it just enter your left ear and throw it out on the
right. I admit this is my weakness but I am trying to overcome it.
