Years of being married, meeting different
(in terms of social status regardless of religion) married couples, sweethearts
from different places I had been, I had theorized this conclusion why couples
fall apart.
Although MOST of these observations apply
on married couples, still some can also be for sweethearts:
Immaturity
Immaturity is synonymous to ‘being
childish’. Encyclopedia and
Dictionary’s take on it are as follow:
LINK
Insensitivity
Being immature, one acts like a child being
INSENSITIVE of the other’s feelings. It
may manifest in actions and in verbal confrontation.
-Examples of Insensitive Actions:
1. Coming home late without notice of whereabouts with phone
off.
Husbands are mostly guilty of this. The wife is just a phone call or eve a text message away. If you have unexpected
appointments after office that you have not mentioned to your spouse, take seconds to let her know. That
precious seconds will save her from the agony of waiting at home worrying about
you or getting hungry waiting for her eating companion. Being a lady, I know how we can feel secure and
this counts a lot if you do AND lessens
the chances of fighting.
2. Literally
pulling-out a pillow from the partner’s head while sleeping.
Funny and foolish, though this happens.
3. Deviating from the old ways
Sometimes it is better NOT TO BE sweet and thoughtful if you can not STAND or KEEP it that way for
as long as the relationship exists. It results to lesser expectations,
lesser reasons to be sad or to ponder about.